Category Archives: Married Life

They say Communication is at the heart of success or failure of a relationship. Let me confess and say that even though my wife and I have been married for 10 years, we still struggle sometimes to communicate effectively with each other based on different circumstances and how we are feeling emotionally. I think thisContinue reading “How Do You Communicate with Your Spouse?”

Weather we want to admit it or not, most of us, at one point or another, will compare our marriage to someone else’s whether this is someone we know in real life, a relationship we see from afar, or even a fictional one. Comparison is a trap and a dangerous gauge for the health ofContinue reading “Stop Comparing your marriage to others.”

5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman

Many marriages and families are quietly struggling with a spouse or family member with some sort of addiction. This is never really discussed openly in many cultures. Growing up, I saw a number of uncles, aunties, cousins and distant relatives that had one form of addiction or the other, especially alcohol, and this went onContinue reading “Helping a Spouse with Behavioral Addiction in Marriage.”

Cheating in a marriage has traditionally been a bad title held by men, but of late, women seemed to have come fast on mens tracks with an appetite to do justice to the many centuries of men cheating on them. My wife and I had this discussion the other week and subsequently saw a programContinue reading “Why Men & Women Cheat In Marriage.”

How do you know that there is division in your marriage? What is the true danger in a divided marriage? If you or your spouse are saying things like “we are so far apart on this,” “we share nothing in common,” “we never see eye to eye,” “we disagree about everything,” and “I can’t standContinue reading “Unity of Purpose in Marriage.”

The message from my wife and I is very clear and very simple. For those who have eyes and ears they can see and hear. Marriages and Families are under attack!. Look around your circle, how many couples are divorced or separated or on their way to that outcome, how many families are broken withContinue reading “Fight for Your Marriage & Family”

It has taken me ten years to realize that Marriage is about serving your partner. We’ve all heard the statistics. Over fifty percent of marriages fall apart, and that number increases for subsequent marriages. As a culture, we cite a plethora of reasons for our divorces. We fall out of love. We desire to be with someone more “compatible”Continue reading “Serve Your Spouse…”

There have been many occasions in my marriage that I have dreaded to come home. It can be because of something I know I have done wrong, or the mood of my wife. Over the years I have learnt a number of lessons, which if applied would make a world of a difference in creatingContinue reading “How to Make Your Husband Want to Come Home, & Wife Look Forward to Having Husband Home.”