Monthly Archives: May 2017

Across the world, more and more men are giving up work to become full-time stay at home husbands and fathers aka “house husbands “. In the last two decades, the number of women who do not work to look after their home and raise their family has dropped by a third. The sharp turnaround comesContinue reading “Desperate “House Husbands” of Lazytown”

Sexual fidelity is one of the most important symbols of commitment in a relationship or marriage . Yet it is increasingly under attack from new pressures, and few of us understand why people have affairs or how best to recover from them. As a writer on relationships and family life , I felt it wasContinue reading “The Truth about Infidelity in Marriage “

People can be your worst enemy in times of weakness and indecision in your life. Many women attribute their decision to divorce to bad advice received from a caring friend, counselor, loved one, or ministry leader. If you are not grounded in the TRUTHS of God’s Word, then you will be blown about by everyContinue reading “Be Careful Who Advises You in Marriage “

The other day,  my wife and I were watching Dr Adrian Rogers as he talked about the virtues that parents should  teach a child.  This message was so profound to us as we have 3 beautiful children and we are always yearning to know how to build good character in them for life.  We reallyContinue reading “What Virtues are You teaching your children? “

Commitment means making a choice to give up other choices. This simple truth explains why marriage can be so difficult. We don’t like to give up options in life, and our culture screams at us to hang on to them all. But great marriages are based on a deep commitment that casts aside all optionsContinue reading “Marriage is Not Multiple Choice “

The other day I was reading and meditating on Proverbs 31. I realized that in the 7 years I have been married to my wife Cecilia, she has slowly matured and has been consistent in being a Proverbs 31 wife. What do I mean by that. The book of Proverbs concludes with a poem focusingContinue reading “My Proverbs 31 Wife”

Marriage has but one enemy—pride. It decays a marriage from the inside out. Where pride resides, intimacy cannot be found. True connection cannot be formed. Health cannot be developed. Marriages flourish in humility. In the absence of self-righteousness, self-sufficiency, and self-reliance, marriages have the ability to thrive. In the presence of all the “selfs” nothingContinue reading “Pride in Marriage “

Proverbs 4: 20-22 My son, pay attention to what I say; turn your ear to my words. 21 Do not let them out of your sight, keep them within your heart; 22 for they are life to those who find them and health to one’s whole body. Marriage is one of the most simple butContinue reading “How to Heal Hurt In A Marriage”

Ephesians 5:21-24 , “”Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Saviour. Now as the church submits to Christ, so alsoContinue reading “How Husbands Must Lead Their Wife & Family Spiritually”

Every marriage has challenges. Every marriage has difficulties because marriage is comprised of two people of very different personalities, very different giftings. Two people that are independent and they decide to come together and be married for the rest of their life. Well this can cause conflict because you understand that even where you live,Continue reading “Honesty In Marriage”