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As I grew up and became aware of females,  I knew deep in my heart that Love is actually a choice. You see when you say you are in love,  it means you have allowed your heart and vulnerability to be open to this person you have given your time to.  But remember,  your ideaContinue reading “Love in a Relationship & Marriage is a Choice “

🔹Don’t shout at your wife when you are talking. It really hurts her. *Proverbs 15:1* 🔹Do not speak evil of her to anyone. Your wife will become who you call her. *Gen. 2:19* 🔹Do not share her love or affection with another woman. It is called Adultery. *Matt. 5:28* 🔹Never compare your wife to anotherContinue reading “Husbands : Love  Your*    *”Own Beautiful Wife”*”

When you get married, nobody gives you a manual on how to operate your wife or husband. One thing God gave mankind is free will and even though sometimes we think we can control another person,  we really cannot. I learnt the hard way early in my marriage to my wife that it can neverContinue reading “Married Couple MUST Work Together “

Marriage is a gift from God for life. If you see marriage as a gift,  you would treat it as something precious.  The wedding is not the marriage. The Marriage is a life long commitment.  When I got married to my wife Ceci I did not differentiate between dating and marriage. I thought the fantasyContinue reading “Are You Ready To Serve Your Spouse? “

Seven years ago today,  I got married to my wife Ceci. When I got married I had no idea that the devil has an agenda to destroy anywhere where God has created a union.  It has been a turbulent seven years with many challenges and many blessings.  As my wife and I reach this milestoneContinue reading “Marriage Must be with God”

Before we get married,  we all have a long list of qualities and expectations of our future spouse.   I know that before I could find my own wife I thought that I would never get find the right person who would fit my profile and personality. Reflecting back on my list,  I remember whatContinue reading “How Singles Can Prepare For Marriage “

​I entered into marriage with a distorted view of unity. I believe  like me at that time a lot of couples don’t know what it means to move forward in Marriage with a unity of purpose.  I came into the marriage with my own identity, ideas, dreams and expectations and so did my wife. BecauseContinue reading “Is Your Marriage United? “

Online articles claim that children need freedom with gadgets, but i know a number of teens who spend their lives on their phones, spurn their families, and suffer from emotional problems. Even amid the trappings of our tech-obsessed culture, children’s connections to family and school are still the most important factors in their lives. InContinue reading “Raising Children : To Tech or Not to Tech”

Sometimes you hear wives who complain that their middle aged husband is still acting like a young, single man. At first, this type of behavior might seem annoying but harmless.  However, over time, it can start to become much more worrisome and it can make you wonder if there is something driving him to actContinue reading “Married But Single “

Across the world, more and more men are giving up work to become full-time stay at home husbands and fathers aka “house husbands “. In the last two decades, the number of women who do not work to look after their home and raise their family has dropped by a third. The sharp turnaround comesContinue reading “Desperate “House Husbands” of Lazytown”