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Dealing with my lies requires that I delve deep into understanding myself and why I even lie in the first place. The burden that lies have put on my back and my head made me even question why I lied in the first place. You see, when you’re lying, you’re constantly playing this game whereContinue reading “The Collateral Damage of Lies”

As a man that has struggled with lies in my marriage for over 12 years I had to research and psychoanalyse myself to understand why I lie. Also to understanding why men lie. I have seen the consequences of my lie turning my world upside down. Even though when I lie i feel at theContinue reading “Confessions of a Lying Husband : Part 2 Why Men Lie.”

I am sinner. I have sinned against God, my wife and my family. I have allowed my pride to rule my choices. Pride is selfish. Pride does not think of others. Pride comes before a fall. And indeed i fell, and i fell hard. My whole world came crashing down. Down down all the wayContinue reading “Confessions of a Lying Husband : Part 1”

Godly children is a blessing that many parents long for. The big question many are asking is how does one actually produce a godly family. Issues of parenting and family discipline are not easy to advise on, because hard and fast rules are difficult to come by. My wife and I have learnt that beingContinue reading “Raising a Family with God’s Values”

I have to confess that I embarked on marriage believing in a fairy tale. From what I had read and watched, I thought this version of marriage would come true. Almost 10 years ago now, I found my Beautiful Benin Princess . As our relationship moved toward marriage, I 100 percent believed that my happilyContinue reading “Why Marriage seems So Difficult”

I nearly lost my marriage. Not because i didnt love my wife, but the dynamics of life took the driving seat of our marriage and was taking us to a destination called divorce. I was wondering how we got to a point where sometimes we felt we hated each other. It is thus my PRIMARYContinue reading “How Couples are Failing Their Marriages.”

With all the challenges my wife and i have faced over the 8 years we have been married, and the fact that she has consistently stood by me no matter what the circumstances were made me think about how lucky I am in this day and age to have a loyal wife . How loyalContinue reading “Loyalty in Marriage & Relationships”

I know for a fact that every marriage on this planet has gone through some level of spouse criticism at one point or the other. Some couples have even made it their modus operanda to constantly criticize each other. I was watching a Nollywood movie last night about 2 couples who didn’t appreciate their spousesContinue reading “How to handle Criticism in Marriage “

​In life and especially in marriages,  Conflicts are inevitable. However Arguing is a choice. My wife and I  are very different in the we do things. She tends to be more vocal and I tend to be a  bit more reserved.  It should never be expected that two people should be exactly the same orContinue reading “Conflicts are inevitable,  Arguing is a choice. “