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Many husbands like myself are trying to understand, what are the true needs of a wife. I want to understand what my wife really needs. I find that addressing this question would reduce the bulk of my stress in managing our marriage relationship. I found out over the years that as  a husband, it isContinue reading “Marital Needs Series : Part 2 – What a Wife Needs from Her Husband.”

When you are married you need to understand that there are some essentials that your spouse NEEDS. A need is defined as something that is necessary, obligatory, essential and is a mandatory requirement ; it’s a physiological or psychological requirement of the well being of an organism. So NEEDS cannot be ignored. In this series,Continue reading “Marital Needs Series : Part 1 – What a Husband Needs from His Wife.”

My wife and I had children very early in our marriage. Just a year in we had our first son. When I met my wife she was working, had a side hustle business and was running events from time to time. In fact, that was one of the reasons that I fell in love withContinue reading “Encourage & Support Your Spouses Dreams”

Expectations. We all carry them, and never more so than in the context of marriage. They can be powerful, but can also go very wrong. When they are realistic and communicated in a healthy context, you will typically find a marriage that is thriving. When unmet, unrealistic, and unending, conflict is inevitable and likely often.Continue reading “Unmet Expectations”

Why Are Many Husbands Silent? Uncovering The Silent Treatment. Many men in marriage have been silenced directly or indirectly by their wives, or have chosen to be silent on a number of issues. Wives, your husband is giving you the silent treatment, and it hurts. A lot. He completely ignores you. When you ask himContinue reading “Married Men Speak : Why Are Many Husbands Silent.”

Married Men have been silenced directly or indirectly. Men and Women have to understand each other but most times they don’t. A lot of men out there cannot say certain things in their marriage for fear of sleeping on the couch, getting an earful from their wife, being labelled, getting into an argument or inContinue reading “Married Men Speak.”

My marriage went through a massive attack. I did not even realize that is what was happening. It was very simple, as the Head of my Home, all I had to do was to neglect my duties as a husband. In fact, I did not even know the details of my role as a husbandContinue reading “The Role of a Husband – 5Ps Principle – Pre Order E Book!”

The role of protector is perhaps the most fundamental aspect of a man’s duty. Men, this is the way God designed us physically, mentally, emotionally. This is a responsibility He has given to every man, barring legitimate incapacity—and He expects us to fulfill: Protect the women and children. Godly men are fighters and protectors. When my wifeContinue reading “Role of a Husband : 5 P Series – Protector“

As prophets in our homes, we have the great privilege to speak the words of God to our family. We are spiritual shepherds. Too few today know the joys of hearing a father earnestly, joyfully, humbly giving voice to the words of God in Scripture. This indeed is what I faced like many men outContinue reading “Role of a Husband : 5 P Series – Prophet“

The progenitor of an idea or invention is the person who first thought of it. “For as he thinketh in his heart, so is he.” You can never delegate vision. When God made the family, he started by giving it a man – to lead it, to direct it, and to guide it. This wasn’tContinue reading “The Role of a Husband : 5 Ps Series – Progenitor”