How to Stay Unoffendable in your Marriage

Becoming and staying offended with your spouse hardens your heart toward them. Offense causes you to believe you have the moral high ground. Therefore, making and justifying them as villains when we get offended.  My wife and I go through this a lot and sometimes she can feel offended and I often feel very offended atContinue reading “How to Stay Unoffendable in your Marriage”

If you remove the Root, You will remove the Fruit

I have often struggled with only changing temporarily when my sin is discovered and then returning back to the same sin. So I started meditating upon Matthew 7: 16 Fruit sins are defined as the behavioral expressions of an inner heart condition. As Scripture relates, “Now the deeds of the flesh are evident…” (Gal 5:19a):Continue reading “If you remove the Root, You will remove the Fruit”

Thieves don’t steal from empty houses.

The Devil wouldn’t be attacking you so hard if there wasn’t something valuable in you. Thieves don’t break into empty houses.” In John 10:10 we read that the enemy, Satan, is a thief who comes to steal, kill and destroy Something that I have struggled with for over a decade was lies. The kind ofContinue reading “Thieves don’t steal from empty houses.”

Men – Lets Attend to Our Wives

Lately, I have had to ask myself some very tough questions about my marriage. Have I truly done my best to treat my wife with the tenderness that she requires. Ever wondered why it is difficult for another to treat a fellow human being right? While some may choose to ponder on these, it mightContinue reading “Men – Lets Attend to Our Wives”

What Will The World Remember You For?

How do I want to be remembered? What Impact have I made to my family, my community and the world. Will I be remembered for positive things or for negative things? I have been asking myself these questions lately and I have realized I have not done enough to fulfill the potential that God hasContinue reading “What Will The World Remember You For?”

Have You Defined Your Identity?

Who Are You, is not the typical question many of us get asked daily, nor is Who Am I, a question many of us normally ask ourselves. Yet as simple and straight forward as these questions might seem, many people struggle to conceptualize and communicate a response that clearly expresses their self-concept/self-identity or how theyContinue reading “Have You Defined Your Identity?”