Monthly Archives: October 2022

Why Are Many Husbands Silent? Uncovering The Silent Treatment. Many men in marriage have been silenced directly or indirectly by their wives, or have chosen to be silent on a number of issues. Wives, your husband is giving you the silent treatment, and it hurts. A lot. He completely ignores you. When you ask himContinue reading “Married Men Speak : Why Are Many Husbands Silent.”

Married Men have been silenced directly or indirectly. Men and Women have to understand each other but most times they don’t. A lot of men out there cannot say certain things in their marriage for fear of sleeping on the couch, getting an earful from their wife, being labelled, getting into an argument or inContinue reading “Married Men Speak.”

My marriage went through a massive attack. I did not even realize that is what was happening. It was very simple, as the Head of my Home, all I had to do was to neglect my duties as a husband. In fact, I did not even know the details of my role as a husbandContinue reading “The Role of a Husband – 5Ps Principle – Pre Order E Book!”

The role of protector is perhaps the most fundamental aspect of a man’s duty. Men, this is the way God designed us physically, mentally, emotionally. This is a responsibility He has given to every man, barring legitimate incapacity—and He expects us to fulfill: Protect the women and children. Godly men are fighters and protectors. When my wifeContinue reading “Role of a Husband : 5 P Series – Protector“

As prophets in our homes, we have the great privilege to speak the words of God to our family. We are spiritual shepherds. Too few today know the joys of hearing a father earnestly, joyfully, humbly giving voice to the words of God in Scripture. This indeed is what I faced like many men outContinue reading “Role of a Husband : 5 P Series – Prophet“

The progenitor of an idea or invention is the person who first thought of it. “For as he thinketh in his heart, so is he.” You can never delegate vision. When God made the family, he started by giving it a man – to lead it, to direct it, and to guide it. This wasn’tContinue reading “The Role of a Husband : 5 Ps Series – Progenitor”

For a lot of men like myself, there are few terms as confusing or intimidating as when we’re told to be a “spiritual leader “within our families and communities. What does it even mean or look like on a daily basis? If you’re married or have children, no doubt you’ve heard it—often. “Guys, you needContinue reading “Role of a Husband : 5 P Series – Priest“

1 Timothy 5:8 – But if anyone does not provide for his relatives, and especially for members of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever. I got into marriage without a great deal of depth of knowledge on this specific issue. Provision for a wife and family is aContinue reading “Role of a Husband: 5 Ps Series – Provider“

In our African society and culture, we hardly address a very serious problem called Depression. A lot of men and women are going through depression with very visible symptoms, and these are never addressed. As young people and as we grow up, we are also not educated enough about depression in order to find waysContinue reading “Is There Depression in Your Marriage?”

In my home Shona language there is a saying “Kura Uone” translated “Grow Up & See” Its a simple saying loaded with meaning. As children, we can never truly understand what our parents went through, and you can only get an idea when you grow up and see for yourself. One thing that is veryContinue reading “The Evolution of Marriage & Family – Who Is Advising Couples Today?”